Falling in love can be one of the most beautiful feelings one can experience, what can happen next is a different story though :) . People either fall in love naturally or forcefully. By forcefully I mean when they get desperate for a bf or a gf and tend to think that they are falling in love.That's actually a dangerous situation because if it works out and it was "natural love" from one side and "forceful falling in love" from other, it can cause some serious damage by the time that person realizes that it was not true love.
There are few signs which can make you understand that you are in love, true love :
1. When your heart skips a beat by just listening to her/his name +
2. When you start finding the other person beautiful (not HOT or SEXY) +
3. When you aren't comparing him/her with any one else in the world +
4. When you aren't thinking of any benefits for being with your love +
5. When are you finding excuses to meet them/ talk to them/ get a glimpse of your sweetheart +
6. When you have decided to marry that person without any second thoughts +
7. When you start taking their names regularly at home to see your family's reaction +
8. When you can't bear a single word against him/her +
9. When you have to spend sleepless nights ( chatting/talking or missing) +
10. When you re-read her/his chat history especially when messages have that essence of love. +
MANY MORE....
Love is all about understanding each other, caring for each other, talking "sweet nothings" and most importantly respecting each other and giving them some personal space. Most of the couples break up as they take each other for granted and demand 24hrs of each other's time. I'am sure if people start understanding this important part of "love story", it will always be a happy ending for them, assuming other factors favorable (parent's nod for wedding).
More to come in further blogs.....to be contd....
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